Secrecy, Relationships and stuff…

September 30, 2007 at 5:00 pm (Uncategorized)

I believe if you are in a relationship with someone you shouldn’t have any secrets.

Ever heard that old saying “What a tangled web we weave when first we try to deceive”

Secrets can destroy relationships. Unless they are strong enough to weather that storm and move on.

My late husband tried to keep secrets from me for 16 years, he wasn’t very successful at it. Because I knew him I could read his face like a book.

When you see someone everyday, you can see when they are keeping something from you, its in their eyes, their manner, their voice, the way they communicate or don’t with you.

I don’t believe that you own anyone in this life. I have told my partner on numerous occassions if he wants to leave me he is free to do so. If he stays with me it is his choice. I will never force him to do so because you cannot force anyone to stay with you. I don’t control him. I don’t demand anything of him except fidelity and no secrets. He is his own person and will make his own decisions even if they are mistakes. I will forgive him but I will never forget.

I will never stand in the way of his passion. His career comes first. I will never stop him going anywhere or doing anything to further his career. However as his partner I do believe I have a right to give him advice as I care for him and his welfare and of course our relationship, and this is what being someone’s partner is all about, sharing things. He can take what I say as he wishes, ignore it, think about it, or take it. It is up to him.

I would rather he took a chance with his career, than stay with me and regret never doing so.

If he left me it would not be the end of the world for me.

While I don’t like losing those I love, I would go on. Life goes on.

During my life I have lost my brother, my best friend, my husband, my father, my mother. I lived through that.

I have lived through things that not many of you out there could even imagine. I have seen the dark side of life but I don’t regret that, it taught me much about human nature and now I look for the sun.

Love Me xxxx


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Help the People of Burma…the government has now cut the internet

September 28, 2007 at 5:33 pm (Uncategorized)


Saturday September 29, 06:11 AM

Myanmar forces stamp down on protests, Internet cut

YANGON (AFP) – Security forces moved to crush protests in Myanmar\’s two biggest cities Friday, unleashing warning shots and baton charges, and cutting Internet access in the third day of a deadly crackdown.

The Internet blockage severely reduced the flow of video, photos and first-hand reports of the violence, which has left at least 13 people dead, galvanising world opinion against the ruling generals.

Up to 10,000 demonstrators surged onto the streets of the main city of Yangon Friday, playing a deadly game of cat-and-mouse as they repeatedly confronted police and soldiers.

In the central city of Mandalay, thousands of young people on motorbikes rode down a major thoroughfare towards a blockade set up by security forces who unleashed a volley that witnesses believed could have been rubber bullets.

Intent on quelling the biggest anti-government demonstrations in 20 years, the ruling junta has also mounted an offensive against the Buddhist monks who have led nearly two weeks of mass rallies.

With dozens of monks arrested, beaten or confined to their monasteries, the mantle has now been taken up by student groups and youths who dominated Friday\’s rallies.

\”The monks have done their job and now we must carry on with the movement,\” said one student leader in downtown Yangon.

\”This is a non-violent mass movement,\” he shouted as demonstrators tried to move towards the Sule Pagoda, one of the focal points of the demonstrations.

At a separate protest in Yangon, around 500 people marched in the streets, singing the national anthem as thousands applauded them from the sidewalks.

Monks, revered figures in this devout Buddhist nation, helped transform what began as a scattershot series of protests over a hike in fuel prices into the stiffest challenge to the junta\’s military rule since 1988.

But since the crackdown was launched Wednesday, at least three monks have been killed and hundreds arrested, including eight more on Friday in Yangon and Mandalay.

At least two monasteries were raided Wednesday, including one in Yangon\’s northeastern satellite town of South Okkalapa, where about 100 Buddhist monks were arrested and eight people shot dead after protesting the action.

In the wake of the violence, which shocked Myanmar people who hold monks in the highest regard, western diplomats said they had received information from several sources about \”acts of insubordination\” within the army.

\”We heard that some soldiers have refused to obey orders and that others were even willing to stand alongside the demonstrators,\” one Yangon-based diplomat told AFP.

A telecom official confirmed that the nation\’s main link to the Internet was down, but blamed the problem on a damaged undersea cable.

Security forces have also smashed cameras and cellphones, and beaten people who were carrying them. Several newspapers in the country, which was formerly known as Burma, are no longer operating.

The official tally of dead and injured has been impossible to confirm. State media confirmed nine people were killed this week, but insisted that only 120 protesters turned out on Friday.

The Australian ambassador to Myanmar, Bob Davis, told Australian radio that the actual death toll may have been several times higher, citing witnesses who had seen significant numbers of dead bodies.

A Japanese journalist was among those killed Thursday, and Japan\’s Fuji Television showed footage which appeared to show him being shoved down by Myanmar troops and then shot at close range.

US President George W. Bush and British Prime Minister Gordon Brown renewed their call to the Myanmar junta to end the violent crackdown, after discussing the crisis Friday.

The 47-member UN Human Rights Council decided to hold a special session on October 2 to examine the unrest in Myanmar.

And the Association of Southeast Asian Nations issued an unusually critical statement on its fellow member Myanmar, expressing \”revulsion\” over the use of force against demonstrators.

For more information and how you can help the people of Burma go to

Love Me xxxxx

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If I lay here…

September 26, 2007 at 2:52 am (Uncategorized)


We’ll do it all
On our own

We don’t need
Or anyone

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?

I don’t quite know
How to say
How I feel

Those three words
Are said too much
They’re not enough

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?

Forget what we’re told
Before we get too old
Show me a garden that’s bursting into life

Let’s waste time
Chasing cars
Around our heads

I need your grace
To remind me
To find my own

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?

Forget what we’re told
Before we get too old
Show me a garden that’s bursting into life

All that I am
All that I ever was
Is here in your perfect eyes, they’re all I can see

I don’t know where
Confused about how as well
Just know that these things will never change for us at all

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?


(sorry if I mislead anyone I didn’t write this, its a song by Snow Patrol)




“Chasing Cars”

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Discovery of a New Species…The Female Cyber Stalker

September 22, 2007 at 1:32 am (Uncategorized)


Men Beware…. The Minx

The private parts of a minx contain teeth as sharp as razors that will cut off anything you put inside it and take away your manhood. Also known as the \”ballbreaker\” this hideous creature is the stuff of which nightmares are made. These small mammals are related to the sewer rat, but not as pretty.

The minx can be easily identified by her inability to smile, only being able to raise a pout, the minxes face will, if she tries to smile, wrinkle up and show her true age, as she is not as young as she makes out she is (see photo). Usually the minx remains without a true mate and without children for all her life, this is because of her \”icky\” nature.

The favourite pass time of the minx is trying to drive a wedge inbetween those that have chosen to mate for life. But try as she might this bond cannot be broken easily.

The minx also has no heart and is a cold cold female that thinks she can force someone to do what she says and delete someone that means the most in the world to them.

The minx is incapable of true love and respect for those that actually do love each other in real life and not through the portal of a cyber world.

Apparently the minx doesn\’t think that anyone in this world has feelings that mean anything except her.Nor does she have a conscience, as most small mammals of this nature do not, this is because they have very small brains.

Fortunately for the Cat (the minxes natural predator) though, the minx is digging her own grave. And as she has such a small brain will continue to do so.

Cats will eat small mammals like minxes for breakfast.

One would hope that in the very near future these pests will become extinct.

Maybe one day we can catch a minx in its natural habitat and take its photo, although this may shock and disgust some of those with weak stomachs.

Luckily for all, the minx no longer frequents the Antipodes. So most men here are safe. For now.

This has been Fluffy Attenborough for the Yahoo 360 nature channel.

P.S. anyone out there that wishes to borrow this post or parts herein for purposes of good and not evil are welcome to it hahahaha.

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Thanks Wing!!!!

September 16, 2007 at 3:58 am (Uncategorized)

Your Kiss is Red
You are intense about kissing but easily distracted.
You kiss for attention, power, and passion.
It doesn’t take a lot for you to want to kiss someone.
If you see a kissing opportunity, you always go for it!

Kissing Type: Kissaholic (admit it!)

People See Your Kisses as: Seductive

You Kiss Best With: An Orange Kisser

Stay away from: A Blue Kisser

What Color Is Your Kiss?

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The News, Band Boys and Stuff…

September 16, 2007 at 1:18 am (Uncategorized)

So here I am. I feel like I have been neglecting my lovely 360 friends.

But I was out of action for a few days with a sore neck. Had a couple of days off work.

The night before that happened I had been at Cohagen Quaid’s gig at a city live music venue.

Taking some photos of the boys and my boy (drumming in this band) and generally enjoying the music.

Then the next day I was cactus.

Paul put his back out doing a rock move on Sunday at the Gold Coast where he was singing.

So the next two days we spent lying on my velvet couch watching DVDs feeling sorry for ourselves but at least we were together.

Next week I will be back down doing the News graphics for 8 weeks instead of my normal job.

It has its pros and cons. I will miss my friends in the office because I will be in another building. And it will be stressful especially as there is an election to elect a new Prime Minister, which will probably be the case.

But on the other hand all my work will be finished by the end of the day and I can go home without thinking about what I need to finish tomorrow and will my clients like it etc.

Once again though I will not be able to spend any time on here until I get home from work as I just will not have time during the day.

Usually I check my page at lunch time but I won’t be able to do that for the next 8 weeks.

So don’t think I am not thinking of everyone. I am and I do miss being on here more often. But I guess sometimes life just takes you in a different direction for a while.

When I started this blog I was single and alone. Now I am in a full time relationship and because of the nature of his work, if I do get on the computer its to design graphics for him.

If you are sick of the fact that I don’t get to visit you and say hi very often and want to delete me off your friends list I understand.

Love to you all,

Me xxxxxx

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September 2, 2007 at 6:41 pm (Uncategorized)


Jake was dying. His wife sat at the bedside.He looked up and said weakly, \’I have something I must confess.\’

\’There\’s no need to,\’ his wife replied.

\’No,\’ he insisted, \’I want to die in peace. I slept with your sister, your best friend, her best friend, and your mother!\’

\’I know, I know,\’ she replied. \’Now just rest and let the poison work.\’






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